My mum left her job as a carer because they wouldn't let her wear false nails
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Eps 2: My mum left her job as a carer because they wouldn't let her wear false nails

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In this podcast, a woman whose mother worked as a carer recounts her experience of quitting her job because her employer wouldn't allow her to wear false nails. The woman explains the importance of feeling confident and comfortable in one's appearance at work, and argues that such small accommodations can improve an employee's job performance and overall wellbeing. She also critiques the double standards that exist around grooming and dress codes for women in particular. Ultimately, the woman emphasizes the need for employers to prioritize their employees' agency and autonomy in making decisions about their own bodies and appearance.

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Dianne Douglas

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In today's world, where diversity is celebrated and individuality is encouraged, it is hard to imagine that there are still workplaces that prohibit their employees from expressing themselves through their appearance choices. However, my mum's experience proves otherwise. She used to work as a carer in a nursing home, a job that she loved and dedicated herself to. However, her passion for the job was cut short when the management team informed her that she could not wear false nails while working. For her, this was a matter of personal expression and a way she felt pretty. But for the employer, it was a violation of their dress-code policy.

At first, my mum tried to reason with her employer, explaining how it was unfair and that it did not affect her ability to do the job. She was even willing to compromise by wearing shorter nails, but the management team remained firm on their position, stating that this was just one of their many rules and regulations, and everyone was to follow it. They further detailed how long nails could be a potential danger to the residents and other staff members as they can easily scratch and cause injuries, thus their strict policy.

However, my mum was not the only one facing this challenge. Other employees, particularly women, were also sent home or threatened with termination if they refused to comply with the no false nails policy. For many of them, removing their false nails meant losing an essential part of themselves, which sometimes affected their confidence and subsequently their performance at work. This was a significant issue, considering that the job they did was a crucial one, taking care of the elderly and vulnerable people in society.

The situation was worse for those who had worked in the nursing home for years and had developed good relationships with their clients. To them, the job was more than providing basic care services as they had become part of the residents' family and felt like they were doing the work they were born to do. But the no false nails policy had caused them to question the genuineness of their employer's concern for them, considering that some had worked for the company for over 20 years.

Ultimately, the situation led to several employees resigning from the nursing home, a development that created a significant staff shortfall, affecting the quality of services provided. It was a sad state of affairs, one that could have been avoided if the employer could have been more flexible in their approach. Sadly, the situation mirrored the problem of many workplaces that put policies ahead of their employees, forgetting that they are humans who seek to express themselves in individual ways.

In conclusion, the "no false nails" policy that my mum's employer adopted may seem like a trivial matter, but it has the potential to cause significant disruptions in the workplace and, ultimately, affect the quality of services provided. More so, a blanket dress-code policy may work for some workplaces, but it may not be suitable for a nursing home, where personal care and exposure to various health hazards come into play. Employers need to reflect and gauge their policies' impact, especially on employees' individuality, and make necessary changes where needed. After all, happy employees are more productive, and a company's success relies on its employees.